Reese Barcelon
- A netizen named Monique Flores Diño had been a loving partner to her boyfriend for six years.
- She didn’t know that he would find the guts to cheat on her despite her efforts for their relationship.
- Diño also revealed that the third party involved is the same woman she confided her feelings with the whole time she was in pain.
Long term relationships are one of the most wonderful kinds of relationship.
It is indeed amazing how a couple stayed together through thick and thin for a long period of time as not all couples are able to remain one after all the trials their relationship had faced.
Being in a relationship is easy, however, making it work is a different story.
A female netizen named Monique Flores Diño vented out on her Facebook account after learning a painful truth about her now ex-boyfriend.
Diño’s post instantly went viral as she revealed a lot of shocking details about their relationship, which made the netizens #shookt.
Read her heartbreaking story below:
“Hindi ko alam pano toh sisimulan pero bare with me because right now im in so much pain . hindi ko akalain na after all these years eto ang mangayayare. Most of the times i always blame myself for everything. I overthink, i am emotional, i am sensitive pero i am not aware na niloloko ako ng mga tao sa paligid ko. Mabilis ako ma-attcahed, mabilis maniwala, mabilis magpatawad. I am posting this because gusto ko mabawasan lahat ng bigat sa puso ko, lahat ng nasa isip ko. Hindi ko alam bakit kelangan ko toh paulit ulit na maramdaman. Kung bakit kelangang paulit ulit ko maranasan. Wala naman akong ibang ginawa. NAGMAHAL lang ako. Masama ba yon? Masama ba na mahalin yung tao na mahal mo ng sobra sobra? Hindi ako makapaniwala na kelangan ko na naman tong pagdaanan lahat. Nang paulit ulit. Wala pong masama kung husguhan nio ko pero sorry kase sobrang minahal ko lang naman yung taong nagbibigay ng sakit ngayon sa puso ko. Anim na taon.”
Diño gave everything she can to her ex-boyfriend named Joko Santy, to the extent when she would even talk back to her parents just to defend him and their relationship.
Furthermore, Diño also posted the conversation of her ex-boyfriend and his third party.
“Anim na taon ko syang minahal, anim na taon ko ginugol ang oras, at buhay ko para sa taong akala ko ay magiging totoo sakin. San nga aba ako nagkulang? Ginawa ko naman ang lahat pinagtanggol sa mga kaibgan ko, pinaglaban kita sa magulang ko, pinagtanggol kita sa lahat ng taong humuhusga sayo ngayon saan ba ko nagkamali? Hindi pa sapat na isang buwan akong nagmakaawa sayo? Umiyak, humingi ng tawad sa lahat ng mga naging problema naten? Bakit? Bakit mo toh kelngan ulit ulitin. Hindi mo ba naisip na sobra akong nagsa-suffer? Hindi kita mahagilap kapag kailngan kita. Nasaan ka nung kailngan ko ng suporta mo? Nasan ka nung hbang ako down na down dahil nareject ako sa company .nasan ka sa mga pagkakataong mas kailngan kita? lage kitang inuuwa at iniintindi kita, lahat gnwa ko na pero bakit kailnagan mo kong saktan paulit ulit? Halos pinagtatanggol kita sa mga magulang ko, sinasagot ko sila , sinusuway . mas pinipili kita kase sakanila. Ngayon ako pa ang kailngan makaranas ng ganito? Hindi ko lubos maisip na dadating nanaman sa puntong hnd ka nanaman makukuntento sakin. bakit sya pa? Bakit ha?”
“Ang dameng bagay ang pinagsisisihan ko ngayon. Pero mas nagsisisi ako na hinayaan kitang wasakin ang pagkatao ko ng ganito. i almosr give up everything para sayo , everyday hnd ako nagkulang na maramdaman mong mahal kita , gusto kita , tanggap kita sa lahat ng mga bagay ,ugali na meron ka . now tell me do i deserved all of these? hanggang sa huling pagkakataon hindi mo kayang magpakalalaki sakin. ngayon alam ko na kahit gano pa ko maging tanga at bulag bulugan sayo hnd mo deserved lahat ng pagkakataon na bingay ko sayo. Masaya na ba kayo sa ginawa ? Masaga na bakayo? Balang araw magging maayos at ok ang lahat . pinili mo yan kaya panindigan mo yan. Ginusto nio yan kaya ibbigay ko sainyo yan. Bakit nga ba kailangan kong magpumilit sayo , bakit nga pinipilit ko lage isiksik sarili ko sayo. After all this time you didn’t changed at all. Mas naging worse ka pa.”
Diño was extremely devastated after realizing that her boyfriend cheated on her, again. She thought he would change for the better, but he didn’t. If anything, he just became worse than he already is.
Clearly, he doesn’t deserve Diño at all.
Also, she added her conversation with her ex-boyfriend after she confronted him about his other woman. The man even threatened her saying that he’ll do something if anything happens to his new girl that he called his “future wife.”
“ I don’t care kung anong maging resulta ng pag post ko na toh , im just thankful na maraming mga tao sa paligid ko noon na kahit d ko nakakasama ay naging totoo sakin. Salamat sakanila dahil nagkaron na ng sagot sa tanong ko isang buwan na ang nakakalipas. SANA NAGING MASAYA KAYO ,GAYA NGA NG SABI MO WALANG MAGBABAGO KAHIT ANONG GAWIN KO. WAG KA MAGALALA ALAM NA NG MAGULANG KO NA WALA NATAYO. ALAM NA NILA NA AYOKO NA DIN. pero mapatwad ka sna ng magulang ko dahil ngayon lang nila malalaman ang lahat. alam kong si god na gumawa ng dahilan ayaw nia nako makitang nahihirapan samantalang kayo nagpapakasaya. Hindi ko kayo kayang patawarin at unawain sa ngayon pero god will do his way para sakin. Sabe ko nga im not lucky , but im blessed maswerte pa din ako na medyo delay ko man marealized lahat ng kagaguhan mo , ngayon alam ko na hnd mo ko deserved .hindi ka nakuntento sakin, ngayon sana kuntento ka.
Despite of the long years that had passed before she finally realized that he doesn’t deserve her, she is still grateful that she was able to wake up from a nightmare.
“P.s: kaya kayong mga babae wag nio ibuhos lahat ng pagmamahal niyo ,magtira kayo para sa sarili niyo. Wag kayo magmakaawa kung ayaw na nila pabyaan nio sila sa huli nasatin pa dn ang huling alas. At sa mga babaeng makakati dyan utang na loob naman kapag may jowa na MAGPAAWAT kayo, makonsensya naman kayo sa masisira niyo at masasaktan niyo. SARAP NIYO SABUYAN NG ASIN SA K**** EE.
And pahabol lang , wag kayo maniniwala dyan sa mga BABAENG HIGAD kunwari gsto kayo mging close todo advice pa potana ayon pla tirador ng JOWA ng may JOWA. ANG SAYA DB? .. What goes around comes around. Karma na lang ang bahala sainyong dalawa.”
What’s even more shocking is the fact that Diño relied to a close friend named Maikie Ocampo about her problem with her relationship, who turned out to be the same woman whom his ex-boyfriend was referring to.
The woman had the decency to say things that will console her and make her feel alright, but she was also the one who betrayed her.
Here’s what the people of the internet have to say:
At the end of the day, Diño doesn’t deserve to be treated like how she was treated by her ex-boyfriend. She already had enough after being cheated on, which worsen after realizing that the woman is the same person she treated as her confidante.
How painful it must be to go through two betrayals at the same time?
What can you say about Diño’s experience? Comment your thoughts below!
