Charles Teves
- FUBUs make sex easier
- Having FUBUs is good when it comes to getting over an ex
Writer Sophie Saint Thomas says that having friends with benefits can be very beneficial. As a matter of fact, these friendships can be very significant in one’s life.
Breakups are always hard, especially if the relationship was meaningful. A person who is still in the getting-over process will always try to look for a substitute for their ex. That is when a friend with benefits can perfectly come into play as they deliver the desires that the brokenhearted one yearns for.
“When your heart is still healing, you don’t always make the best choices in partner selection. However, that reliable fuck buddy ready to scratch your back that you’ve known since college? As long as communication is in place, and the casual agreement is mutual, they could be the perfect person to give you the human contact and sex you need to get over your ex.”
Having friends with benefits is easier as you already know the person. You are able to trust the person more since you’ve discussed with them the do’s and don’ts.
“With your trusted fuck buddy, you’ve been through the screening process. You trust that you can communicate about things (such as your most recent STI test), and you can trust that you’ll have a good time with them and they won’t turn out to be a smelly Republican.”
Sex is just better with FUBUs (Fuck Buddy). FUBUs might make you want to try new things, which could possibly turn the relationship into something more intimate.
“Plus, sometimes in casual situations, you may feel more open to trying new things (such as going to a kink event or making use of tentacle-shaped dildos) that take some time to lead up to in more serious romantic relationships. With fuck buddies, you never have to worry about what their mom might think about your tentacle fantasy. ”
Just because friends with benefits feel more attached to each other does not mean that they have to get into a serious relationship. Some people are really just better at being FUBUs instead of being a life partner.
“It’s okay to have consistent and intimate sex with someone who is much better suited for you as a fuck buddy than a life partner. Someone should make a Disney movie about that.”
Another good thing with FUBUs is that it is easier to remain friends with them. When both of you have found that new special someone, the effect on the friendship wouldn’t be that damaging since you were never together in the first place.
“Should one of you meet someone and need to step back from the benefits parts of friends with benefits, the friendship is less likely to go up in flames. ”
Trying to go on casual hookups on dating apps while being honest in wanting only casual sex may make hard for one to do so. But with FUBUs things are different. This kind of friend knows exactly how you feel and what you want to get done.
“With a friend with benefits, if they really are your friend, they’re probably used to you bitching about your break up and how horny you are. They might be single and horny too, ready to come over and go down on you with full knowledge of your emotional state and needs.”
Lastly, sex is so much easier and accessible. All you have to do is hit them up whenever you have the urge to do it, plus they are your friend, friends do favors for each other.
“They are your friend, they like to bang you, let them be there for you by fucking your brains out. ”
