Charles Teves
A Facebook post by a woman who claims to have been cheated on by her ex-partner has gone viral.
The post includes a photo of 22-year-old “Kimberly Anne Mendoza” from Bacolod City, Negros Occidental, along with her former boyfriend, whom she has made black and white, a popular trend.
“Hindi pa patay, sumakabilang bil*t lang + tinalikuran ang responsibilidad sa anak,” she said.
In her lengthy post, Mendoza details the story behind the post.
The couple had been together for five years, and she was even pregnant when he cheated on her.
“Cheating is one thing, but leaving your partner of 5 years while pregnant with your child, to be with someone you met just months ago? THE AUDACITY. Do you want a trip down memory lane? Here’s the SUMMARY,” she said.
Mendoza reportedly chose to speak out because her silence gave the impression that she was at fault and that her ex was “playing the victim.”
She shared, “I’ve been silent these past few months to mentally and physically prepare for the invasive childbirth. However, I will not sit here while you throw dirt on my name and make up stories where you were the VICTIM in the situation you absolutely created yourself and then flip the story to manipulate people to think you’re INNOCENT.”
It turns out her former partner traded her for someone he had only known for a few months. She could not believe she was deceived, as she felt their relationship had been happy for five years. Mendoza vented, “We were together for 5 YEARS, willingly. I had never forced you into staying such as your narrative to your friends and family. Everything was fine in our relationship. We were happy—or just so I thought. 7 months into my pregnancy you left me hanging to be with the girl you just met months ago, in your workplace.”
Her partner vehemently denied having an affair, yet he was seen parading with the same girl he denied having an affair with. Mendoza claimed she had never imagined her partner cheating. Now she thinks that time really reveals the truth.
Mendoza added, “I also found out that you were already cheating on me on the month of September when I was 3 months pregnant, how cruel could that be? That is the fricking lowest a man could steep—to cheat while his partner is carrying his baby.”
And now that she has given birth, she feels that her ex deserves not to be recognized as the father of her child. She pointed out, “This manchild is too complacent about the fact that my son turned out to be a boy and that he’ll seek a father one day, well-breaking news, I will parent him to be a wonderful gentleman that respects both women and men and knows that cheating is never right, and someday my kid is going to figure you out. I promise you he will. The type of partner you are. The type of a person you are.”
She then advised other women to be more careful with men. She said it is not a woman’s responsibility to change her partner; so one must watch out for early warning signs.
Mendoza concluded, “Although our children cannot select their father, we can choose our relationship. Make sure you pick one that is excellent for them. Please spare your kids any future suffering…we need to be reminded of our strength and capacity to choose ourselves over some immature selfish man.”
