Xander Ford expresses disappointment over Godparents’ lack of support for son

Social media personality Xander Ford has publicly shared his frustration after his son, Xeres, received no Christmas gifts from his godparents.

In a social media post, Xander, whose real name is Marlou Arizala, lamented how some friends enthusiastically offered to be godparents but failed to fulfill their promises.

“Ganto pala ang pakiramdam na walang natanggap kahit piso sa mga dating kaibigan na nagsabi, ‘Ako ninong/ninang ng anak mo, ah magtatampo ako pag hindi,’” Xander wrote.

He also voiced his disappointment over their apparent disinterest in maintaining a relationship unless there was a positive milestone in his life.

“Sa panahon ngayun nakakahiya nang lumapit at bumati sa mga ‘yun kasi di ka naman nila papansinin. Pero pag may blessing na dumating sayo, kahit di mo kumbidahin, andyan bigla, tapos mauuna pang mag-congrats sayo,” he added.

This is not the first time Xander has raised concerns about the godparents of his son. In January 2024, he made headlines after calling out fellow social media influencer Christian Merck Grey, popularly known as “Makagwapo,” for not contributing to the P349,000 expenses for Xeres’ christening in 2023.

“Sa mga kaibigan ko diyan na mga influencer, sa mga nasa showbiz na kaibigan ko, nananawagan po ako sa inyo na sana kahit hindi kayo nakapunta sa binyag ng anak ko, tulungan niyo na lang po sana ako na kahit mabawi ko lang ‘yung para sa amin,” Xander pleaded at the time.

Makagwapo denied any responsibility, saying he was not obligated to cover such costs.

Xeres is set to celebrate his second birthday on December 29. However, Xander’s recent posts indicate lingering disappointment over the lack of support he has received from friends and godparents.