When it comes to relationships, not every girlfriend is emotionally assured by their partners – which results to them being quite distrustful to their boyfriends and to the other people around them.
This can also make them do and say such things which weren’t really meant in the first place. One of the examples available is this awful experience of Kaye Esman.
She posted the story, along with the screenshots of her conversation with the Caryl Cacho Gracilla who randomly sent her a message, asking if he knows a certain Lester Nalla II.
At first, Gracilla was trying to be polite by asking her if she knew him and what her reason was for adding the guy. Esman immediately removed Nalla as her friend just so the woman could live in peace.
However, Gracilla suddenly accused her of things she had no intention of doing, and was even called desperate and attention-seeker for doing the first move on adding the guy.
She even added that Nalla just accepted her friend request as he thought she knew her. Esman defended herself with Gracilla’s accusations and told her to try to acquire some manners.
Just when Esman thought the woman would stop, Gracilla even added more fuel to the fire. According to her, she and her boyfriend had an agreement where the both of them aren’t allowed to accept a friend request from an opposite gender.
Then suddenly, Esman got blocked by the suspicious girlfriend and didn’t get the chance to prove the woman wrong. In her post, she admitted that she did add Nalla but not to flirt with the guy. She also said that she can’t even remember how long she has been friends with Gracilla’s boyfriend.
Esman made it clear that she didn’t even like the guy, as he wasn’t her type and said that Gracilla don’t have a proof that she really did flirted with Nalla.
People should never act like that especially over petty things. A healthy relationship requires trust, understanding and maturity to be able to have a long and lasting relationship with their partners. Also, in case a person starts to have doubts with their partners, they should first talked about it rather than acting all rude to a woman who isn’t even doing anything to them.