Why Fraternity? 5 Parental Advice I received from my old folks.

• 5 Parental advice I received from my old folks.
• Hurting and Killing someone is next to Satanism.

College is life and full of memories. Amidst the deadlines and terror professors, one must admit that college made us responsible for the greater things that’s happening in our lives now. It has paved the way for us to see the importance of responsibility, dedication and the adamant character to learn and improve for the better future of our family and the future you- of course.

Yet along the way, there were things “being young and naive” that we used to be when we’re kids, we succumb to pressures and bad influencers that either have caused you to fail your grades or helped you bummed out and instead spent your way and hours on “Inuman sa tabi-tabi” as if it would make you cooler than what you thought it was.

With the recent news that’s spreading like wildfire in social media and TV, the death of an innocent law student who fell victim on the hands of inhumane, grotesque and “un-Godly” like behaviors of perpetrators who let this kid die because of their “initiation rites” rituals. I couldn’t fathom how on earth why would these people “feeling like beating someone is the key to brotherhood” is better than hugs or inspirational talks about life and achievements in general?

The mere fact, that even a pinch from your mom’s “ko-ko” would scare the heck out of you, how much more is that of paddles from people who have NO right to hurt or kill you?

I am not against Fraternity, however I not pro either. We’ve lost so many innocent lives and dreamers because of these grotesque initiation rites.

My question is: Why do you have the heart to beat someone to death? Can’t we all just take a slow walk and appreciate each other’s existence?

Brotherhood is never bad, but initiation rites with brutality is next to Satanism. Period.

So here are the top 5 old advice that my folks told me when I was 16 years old and entering a college life.

1. Do not enter any Fraternity or so-called non-biblical brotherhood.
2. Never associate yourself with people who would doomed you to vices and would led you to catastrophic life afterwards.
3. Share the love but never your life to people who are desperate to hurt and make this world “The worst place to live in”
4. Focus yourself in studying and set your goals on greater things in life rather than spending time in brotherhood that would led you to criminality.
5. Choose what organizations and brotherhood you would like to associate yourself into. (Food trips brotherhoods, Study-brotherhoods and just appreciating the college life brotherhood-never the Fraternity and killings.)

A parental advice that never came easy to me. I have had offers and lingering talks to join this and that, this however, I have turned down because I don’t want to leave my folks behind if these initiation rites would gone wrong.

There are selfish, brutal, broken and criminal- like -minded individuals who may kill and end your dreams  and put your life in danger or worst, death if you agree and follow what they believe in, just like those who die because of the aforementioned.

Again, Brotherhood is not bad, but to kill and to destroy someone’s dreams and break someone’s heart because of your delusional rites is next to Satanism. Imagine the pain that the parents may feel, especially the mothers who have lost their kids to these kind of “Inhumane-Brotherhoods” that unknowingly, those who beat you just want to impress their leaders because they’ve done this and that.

Beating and Killing someone for some so-called brotherhood is never good at all. It is time that our government must do something about this, life is precious just like the tears of those parents mourning for the losses that even to this day, is hauntingly painful.

Instead surround yourself with people who will help you in achieving your dreams. That’s all.